If you know me or have ever worked with me, you know that this is my phrase: “No child ever wakes up and decides, Wednesday is my day to throw a desk.” That is, no child wakes up and decides to act out. Our children’s’ and adolescent’s behavior is a form of communication when the words can’t be found, and it is our job as the parent, teacher, behaviorist, psychologist to become the investigators to understand the underlying reason and what our child/student/adolescent is trying to say.